7 Years Divorced, But Never Broken


Seven years ago, my life changed. I went through a divorce that shook me to my core. I was left to pick up the pieces—not just of my own heart, but of a life I had to rebuild for my son and me.


My son is autistic, and raising him has been the most challenging and beautiful journey I’ve ever known. Every day requires patience, creativity, and a love that knows no limits. He doesn’t see the world like everyone else—and that’s his superpower. Watching him grow, overcome, and shine in his own way has inspired me more than words can explain.


Raising a child on the autism spectrum comes with its own set of challenges and joys. It’s a journey that requires patience, resilience, and an endless amount of love. There are days filled with progress, laughter, and connection. And then there are days that test every bit of strength I have. But through it all, he’s my why. He’s the reason I push forward.


Being a single parent has taught me how to be resourceful, how to advocate fiercely, and how to celebrate every small win. I’ve grown into a version of myself I didn’t know existed. And even on the hardest days, I wouldn’t trade this journey for anything. Because it’s ours.


There were days I felt alone. Days I cried in silence. Days I questioned if I was enough. But through every challenge, I kept going. Not because it was easy—but because he needs me. And truthfully, I need him too. He’s taught me to slow down, to see beauty in the little things, and to love without conditions.


Divorce didn’t break me. It built me. It showed me how strong I really am. It gave me a deeper purpose and a clearer voice.


To anyone walking a similar path—divorced, single parenting, raising a child with special needs—I see you. You are not alone, and your story matters.  And to anyone who feels like their world is falling apart—please believe that you can rise. You can thrive. You can turn pain into power.


I’m living proof. 😊


-Amity Rose-

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